Sorry your wife has passed, puckhead. Sounds like she was a joy to live with, though. Like yourself, I was fortunate to find a sexy lady who enjoyed bringing extra men into our bed or her bed for our mutual enjoyment. It's a shock when age takes it away from us.
I got into cleaning my own from my wife many years ago. Seeing cum, and the idea of it turned me on so much. She has passed now, but we had some fun times
I was in way over my head, she was light years ahead of me. I realize now that that's when I was first turned on by "sharing" my girl. It was also with her that I first experienced the euphoria of hot seconds.